If you’ve just arrived in China, here’s one thing you must remember: when your Chinese friend says, “Tonight, let’s just eat a little,” don’t be fooled into thinking it’s going to be a small meal!

When you arrive at the restaurant, you’ll soon realize that “eat a little” usually means a table full of delicious dishes—varied and plentiful. You look at the spread, your friends are enthusiastic, and you can’t help but join this “food battle.”

After you’ve eaten quite a bit, your friends still aren’t ready to call it a night. They might suggest “going for a walk” or “singing a song.” You think it’s just a casual after-dinner activity, but that’s only the beginning! Usually, this means heading to a KTV or a nearby street to keep the fun going.

Just when you think it’s finally over, your friends may lead you to a barbecue stall. “Want to hang out and chat about life?” A few skewers and some beer, and the atmosphere heats up. You might feel shy at first, but the magic of drinks and conversation helps you loosen up.

If your friends suggest playing some party games, don’t be alarmed — this is a typical part of Chinese hospitality. Time flies amid laughter and games. Before you know it, it’s almost dawn, adrenaline still pumping through your veins. You finally get home and just want to crash.

The next morning, you might be surprised to realize that “just eating a little” was actually a full-on party. Though tired, this experience becomes one of the most vivid memories of stepping into Chinese life and feeling the warmth of friendship.

So next time you hear “let’s just eat a little,” be mentally prepared for a night full of laughter, food, and genuine Chinese-style fun!