A proverb (谚语) is a short, commonly used saying that expresses a general truth, practical advice, or cultural wisdom. Proverbs are often passed down through generations and reflect everyday life or moral lessons.

The next proverb we’re going to share today is: 拿人手软，吃人嘴短(ná rén shǒu ruǎn, chī rén zuǐ duǎn)

This proverb means: When you accept someone’s help or gifts, you may become reluctant to criticize or oppose them. It highlights how favors can influence your behavior or silence honest opinions.

In English, it corresponds to common expressions like:

  • He who takes a hand is soft; he who eats from a mouth is short. (literal)
  • Gifts soften the heart.
  • You can’t bite the hand that feeds you.
  • Gratitude can limit criticism.

Have you ever felt hesitant to point out someone’s mistakes after they helped you? That’s when this proverb comes in handy: 拿人手软，吃人嘴短. It reminds us how accepting favors may affect our judgment and speech.

Today’s Recap:

Proverb : 拿人手软，吃人嘴短

Pinyin : ná rén shǒu ruǎn, chī rén zuǐ duǎn

English Equivalents:

  • He who takes a hand is soft; he who eats from a mouth is short.
  • Gifts soften the heart.
  • You can’t bite the hand that feeds you.
  • Gratitude can limit criticism.

See you next time!